Will You Tell?

You broke off with your ex-bf long time ago and both of you remained good friends. You know he still has got the hots for you and both of you were like good ole dating couples when you meet up. Obviously, you were more than friends.

Soon, he got hooked up with another gal pal of yours. She is a close friend and your relationship with him was never much revealed. Meaning, she knows the history between you both but does not know that both of you are still so close.

One single month, your gal pal went overseas for business trip. You and few other friends, including your ex, met up and had a few drinks at the pub. All of you got high and he insisted on sending you home. Since it’s late, all the other friends asked you to follow his car for safety sake. While in the car, he held your hands and told you that he still misses you. Of course, you are happy that someone still cares for you but that is already history. He is with someone else right now and she is your gal pal and you are actually happy for them. Then he tried to kiss you and you pushed him away, telling him to f*ck off! Nothing happened then. He sent you home.

The following night, he text you, asking you your plans for the weekend. He asked if you wanna spend the weekend with him at his house. You think he must have gone crazy this time! Now that’s too much. WTF!!?? Of course, you said no.

Few weeks later, your gal pal returned from her business trip. You went out yam-char with her and another friend. While 3 of you gals were having your girls’ talk, your gal pal told you that she and your ex is planning to get married. The other friend burst out happily and said that she is soooo happy for both of them.

Inside your heart, you felt a sudden gush of anger… that the f*cker has the guts to ask you to spend the weekend with him prior to that. How can he treat her this way???

At this point, what will you do?

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We're bitchy, but we aren't sluts

This morning, via, MSN, my friend told me of this story of a girl, someone whom I know during school. She has a rather interesting story. Her bf, loved her so much that he is willing to work more than 1 job to give her a better life. But she didn’t appreciate it and went f*cking around. She even slept with her good friend's hubby, her colleagues, her suppliers, etc. In the end, her bf found out and threw all her belongings out of the house, including her! I guessed at that time, there's nothing she could do or say to get her bf to forgive her for all her wrong doings.

Then I asked my friend, how could she do this, and even if she really couldn't resist all the lust and loneliness, don't go do it in the same small town that everyone knows everyone else. In the first place, if you know what you're doing is wrong, don't make it so obvious la!

My friend said something interesting. She said that her (the Girl) bf has to work more than 1 job, and he couldn't spend much time with her. So maybe she didn't get enough loving and went out looking elsewhere. But what she didn't realize is that she has that love all the time... and she didn't appreciate it. I told my friend that my Hubby is also away from me all the time. But I didn't feel the lack of love from him. And I don't go sleeping around when he's away.

My friend answered: You're different. You're not the bitchy type. She is. She's worst than us.

Worst than us? How can we measure the level of bitchiness? Is it how horny we are? How much we gossip? How much bad stuffs we talk about others?

Well, I personally don't think that she's worst than us. I think we're all equal. We're all horny bitches. Just that we aren't sluts like her. And we definitely won't sleep around with our friend's hubby.

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What will YOU do?

Me and Shopaholicfern has been doing this survey for some time. So, we hope to get more answers especially from guys.

This scenario is more for married and attached guys. We need sincere answer based on your current situation. Meaning, if you have gf, or if you are married, this will be your current situation. Of course, if you’re single, this scenario is meaningless.

Imagine this:

There is a new gal in your office. Pretty, sweet, hot, friendly. Both of you can get along well. You like her personality. You always try to catch a glimpse of her whenever you could and noticed that she is always looking at you as well. Each time your eyes locked, she will smile the monalisa smile at you. You think she likes you but could not be sure and you just tell yourself don’t be ‘perasan’ la.

One night, after a company gathering, you and another few colleagues went to a nearby pub to have a drink. She sat beside you and you somehow feel glad that she is sitting beside you. Both of you chat. As it was getting late, most of the other guys went home, leaving only you and her in the pub. It was a normal and fun chat. Both of you kept looking at each other and you really enjoyed her company. Both of you were attracted to each other. You somehow think that if you are single, you will probably go after this gal.

Suddenly, or very naturally, she puts her hand on your thigh.

Guys, at this moment, you could have her if you make a move as well.

So, what will YOU do?


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Hot & Sexy

I Love Jolin Tsai!!!
I think she's really sexy, great body, beautiful hair... everything beautiful. I just love her!!!

Just watched her concert on TV. She's so beautiful....

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uPapa

Yesterday, I bought the Osim uPapa. I just accompany Elizebeth DL to Osim store to get her hubby a foot massager... and I ended up spending money on this. But no regrets.

I just wonder why they called it uPapa... Mama also can use ma. Why Papa? Elizebeth DL says soon, the cheena-lang will come up with a pirated copy of uPapa and will call it uMama. I think she is probably right.

While we were there, I also saw uVibe, a handheld vibrating massager. I was thinking... hmmm.. this can double function as a massager and a vibrator. Even the shape looks like a didi. Should I buy? Anyway, didn't buy it.

I am having my uPapa massaging my back as I blog now. Wah.... very shiok! Feels like orgasm... haha.. just joking. Not THAT shiok la.

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Toy Story

It's been a while since I last blogged. Have been a little busy and went home pretty late every night. I also don't know why I can be so sibeh hardworking in this company. They say sei-sing-pat-koi (死性不该） but it seems like I've changed overnight. Hmm... must be having some sickness.

Ok, here is an overdue post. 2 Fridays ago, I went for dinner with my friend near her office. After dinner, she wanted to go back to office to ensure that the doors are properly locked.

When I entered her office, I was like... WAH!!! So much fun was at her office... she is in the toy industry and I have never seen an office that looks so enjoyable.

Take a look at the meeting room.




Full of toys everywhere... its like when you're bored looking at your pc, you can go to the board room to play play with some Hotwheels cars or Barbie Dolls.

Some cubicles even have Batman and Superman... supposedly good feng shui for the sales team. Haha.

Even the pillows are all Barbie Dolls pillows. So fun! And I noticed every table has a Barbie doll. Yeee.... this is so much better than my boring office. Nothing to play with and I dare not surf too much nowdays because my boss is still monitoring the most visited site every day. Cilakak!

Luckily I still have my good ole stress ball to squeeze. Kekeke. Poor stress ball.

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November 10

Saturday, November 10th 2007.

Many people talked and blogged about 'Bersih' on this day. To me, it was more than 'Bersih'. It was a truly more meaningful day to me, because....

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It was my Father's 60th birthday!!!!

My brother sent me some pics and tears filled my eyes. I wasn't there to celebrate with my Daddy. I miss my Mum and Dad. Being abroad really made me realised how important my family is to me.

I am glad my brother brought my Dad to Teluk Gong for seafood. They went there with our relatives and they all had a great time.

I LOVE YOU, DADDY!

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Being Monitored.. Maybe.

Remember previously I was surfing for a vibrator on taobao.com? This week, some f*ckers uploaded some stuffs to the internet over 1GB which causes the traffic a surge. IT, which was my dept, seriously looked into it. I heard my boss talking about someone and some taobao thingy and I was like... fucking shit! Did someone caught me searching for vibrator? My boss even consulted legal dept on actions to be taken against the person, no joke.

This morning, an email warning was sent out regarding internet usage policy. My boss showed me the traffic for surfing internet dropped drastically since the email was out. I saw all the canggih tracking system and was like.. f*ck shit.. these guys knows who surfed what at what time, etc.

Then boss told me someone was using working hours from 10-5pm to surf taobao.com and kept uploading files onto it. And that someone must have used the working hours for his own business on taobao.com. He didn't mention who, and HR has given that person a first warning. I was like, phew!!! Not me for the vibrator. But who knows while he was investigating, he probably went to see what I had surfed for. Tiu lor!

I am bloging this from office. My boss will know. He is so free today. I see him monitoring the system for the whole day. But I no tiu! Still blog and surf. Wukakaka!

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Sawadeeka...

Everytime someone asks me what is my favourite food, I have only 1 answer - Thai!

I really love Thailand and being in Bangkok in 2004 for my project was like heaven on earth! I can have tom yum goong everyday... until my tummy cannot take it.. lou-sai! Even lou-sai I still take my daily tom yum goong. Geng or not!

Last weekend I went for Thai cuisine with the usual gang, Elizebeth DL, Eric and Winston. We were sitting at first class table and watched some dance performance by beautiful Thai girls. I really love those thai girls as they are so friendly, polite and soft. After the performance, they went around distributing orchids to every female patrons. Kopunka...

I was thinking about Thai food again this weekend, but not sure if my friends wanna go makan with me or not... every week also Thai.

YAY!! NEVER SAY NO TO THAI!!!

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Sexy B'day Wish

To my friend, Benny:

• Who always calls me a b*tch
• Whom I always call a f*cker
• Who always fight with me a lot over the slightest matter
• Who always challenged me to have sex with him (haha.. jokingly)
• Who always argue on who has a better sex life
• Who is so thick skin to remind me of his Bday today...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

MAY ALL THE HAPPINESS BE WITH YOU!

YO!!! GROW UP DUDE! YOU ARE ALREADY A FATHER! HAHA!

Love you Ben! Have a F*ck-tastic Bday!
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Time is Running Out

I remember I posted an entry in July on how time flies, that we're into the second half of year 2007. And now.. it's already November. 2 more months and we'll be wishing friends and families happy new year again. And in 3 month's time, I'll be probably be flying back to KL to celebrate 2008 CNY. I can't believe it. It's too fast.

It also makes me ponder on what I have achieved this year. Looking back at the past 10 months, it seems like other than fulfilling my traveling needs, there really isn't much that I have done in 2007. Geezzz... I don't even remember if I have a new year resolution.

So, for the following 2 months to come before year end, I will make a resolution now... Yes, it won't be too late. I will go on a low-carb diet, workout more often and pledge to complete my chinese workbook (初级汉语，第3册）in these 2 months. I started this workbook since last year!!! OMG!!! No more delays.... time is running out! Can't be lazy anymore...
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